What is the exact definition of good and bad . As far as i know its meaning differs from person to person , situation to situation . We generally define good and bad according to our own intuition and understanding of the situation .
Isn't it ??
Have you ever faced a situation where you took a decision that seemed to be right before but you don't feel satisfied ?? I am sure this happens to all of us at one time or another. When we take a decision we think about it so much , according to us we think of all pros and cons of that decision but when we have taken it sometimes it just doesn't fell right.
But then why it happens ? We all take good decisions for ourselves , at least thats what we think. Its because what we think is good for us is not necessarily good for us .it is because we overthink a situation too much that whats good starts to seam bad and vica -versa. It is not necessary that we have understood the situation or the person right or what might seems right is actually not right.
Confusing isn't it ??
The only solution I can think of is just let things flow . Its not necessary to overthink always . I can't believe i am saying this , A person who herself overthinks each and every little thing, but we all know its leads no good to us. Due to this overthinking of GOOD AND BAD we loose people and opportunities and when we realize it .. its too late . After the damage is done we realize what we felt was good is not actually feeling that good .
So i feel nothing is GOOD OR BAD .. its all in our head